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Friends & Family Remember Johnny Cash
By Jody Ewing
4/28/05
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Photo by Marty Stuart This
photo of Jack Clement and Johnny Cash appears in "I Still Miss Someone"
next to the poem "My Friend, The Famous Person" that Clement wrote and
read at Johnny's funeral. |
Most
people knew him as “The Man in Black.” Many called him an icon, a true
American treasure. Some called him by his given birth name – J.R. – but
to those who loved with and laughed with and knew Johnny Cash best, he
simply was known as “John.”
In a career that spanned six decades, the legendary singer touched
millions of lives worldwide with his powerful, larger-than-life
presence and unforgettable songs that mirrored the human condition. He
could joke and sing about a boy named Sue and then go straight to a
performance with the Boston Pops Orchestra. One and one-half years
following his death on Sept. 12, 2003 at age 71, he remains the only
entertainer besides Elvis Presley to be enshrined in both the Country
Music and Rock and Roll Halls of Fame.
In “I
Still Miss Someone
The roster also includes recollections by Cash’s early bandmates W.S.
Holland and Bob Wootten, his longtime booking agent Lou Robin, country
music icons Johnny Western and “Cowboy” Jack Clement, and the late
Merle Kilgore, who passed away in Mexico Feb. 6 while undergoing lung
cancer treatment. Kilgore co-wrote Cash’s 1963 hit song “Ring of Fire”
with Cash’s then-future wife June Carter and also served as best man at
the couple’s wedding.
Weekender writer Jody Ewing caught up with TV veteran and author Hugh
Waddell for what he said is his first ever interview given to a
newspaper, as well as three of the Man in Black’s closest friends and
his No. 1 local fan.
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“We receive many gifts during the course of our lives, not just on birthdays or at Christmas, and not all are wrapped,” Hugh Waddell states in the book’s introduction, setting the tone for the recurring theme consistent throughout the chapters – all of which begin with the contributor’s name, their hometown, state and shoe size.
“The publisher said we needed some italicized thing to say who these people are, and I said no, all I want is their hometown and their shoe size,” Waddell said in a telephone interview from Joelton, Tenn. “’Their shoe size?’ he said, and I said ‘yeah, because John Cash always said that everybody has itchy feet and some scratch more than others.’ That was his way of saying he wanted to travel.”
Waddell - whose family has been connected with the Cash family for more than 30 years – spent eight years with Johnny as publicist, logistics manager, personal aide and part-time drummer, and said he decided to compile the book after reading only celebrity testimonials after John’s death.
“They were marvelous, but I knew there were a lot of people like myself that loved John, that knew John, that had angles and stories to tell that no reporter would know they even existed,” he said.
Billy and Ruth Bell Graham – who wrote the tribute’s foreword – are the only well-known celebrities in the book and Waddell wanted them included for several reasons.
“One, because Billy Graham was probably John Cash’s closest friend,” he says. “John wrote that, and there’s a letter about that I put in the front just to reinforce how much John loved Dr. Graham. When they did the CMT televised tribute, Dr. Graham was left out. To me, there is no tribute to Johnny Cash without a Billy Graham.”
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“To have met him in 1955 and worked with him until ’97, you
know, it
was just unreal,” Holland said in a phone interview from his home in
Jackson, Tenn. “I look back at it and it seems like it lasted about 30
days. It was just an amazing time.”
That amazing time translated into scores of national hits: In 1956, “I
Walk the Line” was a top country hit for 44 weeks and sold over a
million copies; the 1960 single “Ride This Train” won a gold record, as
did the 1963 album “Ring of Fire” and the 1968 LP “Johnny Cash at
Folsom Prison.” Cash received 11 Grammy awards over the course of his
career.
“He was a visionary.”
“He incited people, and inspired people, to rise to their occasion,”
says Waddell, who currently drives a special ed school bus for metro
Nashville schools, works for the Tennessee Titans during the football
season and still plays drums. “He was a visionary.”
In his chapter, Waddell writes about the late “Mama Cash,” whom he
calls a dear friend to his own late grandmother, Marie Comer. When
Waddell’s mother passed away in 1987, Johnny and June insisted he join
them on the road to soften his grief at home. Shortly after they
completed their tour, John asked the outspoken Waddell to work for the
couple advancing their concerts. John quickly became a mentor and close
friend, leaving Waddell and other employees unencumbered to do what
they did best.
When Waddell’s father passed away in 1996, John sang at the funeral and
once again was there for him.
“I don’t
think that, deep down, John really knew how much it meant to
me – I mean, just gut, heart, deep as a soul can go – his respect for
my mother, and also for my father when my father passed away,” he said.
“There are very few people in our lives that care about us enough to
get in our face and make it obvious how much they want to share your
sorrow and lighten your burden. If we can count five people like that
we’re lucky, and John Cash is one of those people for me.”
Holland remembers when Waddell first approached him about the idea for
the tribute book. “I said, ‘That will be the best book anybody’s ever
put together,’ and I think it is,” he said. “It’s not a thing about
Johnny Cash; it’s about what friends and family thought of Johnny Cash,
and to me, it’s just the best thing that’s happened.”
Holland will join up with the legendary stage band’s lead guitarist Bob
Wootten for a Johnny Cash band reunion concert in July during “CashBash
2005” – a fan-based, grassroots celebration of the 50th anniversary of
Cash’s first Sun Studios recordings in Memphis, Tenn.
“Cowboy” Jack Clement, who first met Johnny Cash in 1956 while working
for Sun Records, stayed close friends with Cash throughout his life,
playing guitar with him on some sessions just two weeks before Cash
died.
“He was a real gentleman,” said Clement in an interview from his native
Nashville. “He never got jaded like a lot of people do, and he never
slighted his fans. He always had respect for his fans and treated them
with respect.”
In 1991, Clement wrote a poem for Cash entitled “My Friend, The Famous
Person,” which he read at Johnny’s funeral and included in his chapter.
He writes in the poem, “It takes a good man to take success and not
misplace his soul.”
This Giant of a Man
Before she became his personal hairdresser, Penni Lane says she didn’t
really know or understand the magnitude of the man Johnny Cash. She
knew two things however: he was a stallion on stage and had a bit of
mystery about his presence.
During the time she traveled with him from 1969 – 1973 and then worked
for him for special events through the early 80s, she began to
understand.
“I think the mystery was that his presence could create such an awesome
feeling that you would feel from other people and from the audience
that they had about him when he walked on stage,” Penni said from her
home in Nashville.
As his hairdresser, Lane also discovered how important Johnny’s
appearance was to him, though it had nothing to do with egotistical
vanity.
“It was a caring about himself and his presence that he had always
had,” she said. “It was a thing where he was in the superstardom years,
and the press was there all the time. I mean, they were waiting all the
time.”
The press were not the only ones waiting. Council Bluffs, Iowa native
Dennis Devine, Sr. heard Johnny Cash’s “Cry, Cry, Cry” in 1955 and knew
he had to meet the singer in person someday. He got his chance in 1960
when Cash performed in Omaha, Neb., at the old Paramount Theatre. When
Devine – along with his brother and a friend – discovered the show had
been sold out, the ticket office allowed them to stand to the side of
the stage for the same $5 price.
Between 1960 and 1996, Devine attended more than 125 shows – including
three in Council Bluffs where he gave the introduction – and has taken
more than 4,000 pictures of Cash and his entourage, many of which
appear in Waddell’s book and author Peggy Knight’s books on the Cash
and Carter families. Devine proudly wears his title “The World’s #1
Johnny Cash Fan,” and has one of only two fan-written chapters in
Waddell’s book.
“I can still remember John’s last words to me and mine to him,” says
Devine. “It was at June’s funeral, and when I left the podium, John
said to me, ‘Thank you, Dennis,’ and I said to him, ‘I love
you.’”
Lane says she owes to Johnny Cash many joys she otherwise never may
have known, and misses the fact that his presence is not alive in our
world now. “He is a piece of American musical history, and I was making
history with this giant of a man,” she says.
Cowboy Jack Clement, echoing the thoughts of friends, family and fans
alike, says he misses Johnny’s fantastic sense of humor.
“I still miss him,” he says. “I still miss someone. Him.”
| THE DETAILS |
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available at Cumberland
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Publishing, at other online sites and in area bookstores. For more information on July's CashBash 2005, visit www.cashbash2005.com |
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